Eulogy for My Brother

This is the eulogy I wrote for my brother, after his battle with cancer ended. His children and I sat together and shared stories. I took several notes and then sat down and wrote it.

Bruce was born in xxxxxxx, Ontario to xxxx and xxxx . As the first-born son, Dad hoped Bruce would follow in his footsteps and someday take over the family farm. Bruce, however, had severe hay fever.

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Instead Bruce chose to follow farming through a degree in Agricultural Engineering. When he graduated from the University of Guelph, the new crop in the ground was oil. Bruce would continue the pursuit of crude throughout his lifelong career.

Oil took him around the world, but the place that captured his attention and heart was Nova Scotia, where he met and married Darlene. His ready- made family doubled in a few years; as Mark and Lori were soon joined by Katie and Jason.

In 1985 the Berry clan headed west to Calgary to Petro Canada’s head office. At home, Bruce didn’t talk a lot about work and we were never sure exactly what he did there, but his business card said ‘Drilling Superintendent’.

Whatever that is, it means you travel to Algeria, Singapore, Madagascar, Equator, Costa Rica, Alaska, Botswana, the Arctic, England, Kenya, – just to mention a few destinations where his work took him.

His favourite trip, however, was when he took his daughters to Paris. The other trip he loved to take was to the arena, to watch Mark and Jason play hockey.

After moving to Calgary, every summer the family returned to Ontario and Nova Scotia. He would pack everybody into the van – including the dog – and off they would drive across Canada. No easy feat. Obviously staying connected with family and friends was very important to him.

In 1996 Bruce and Darlene separated. Years later, Bruce admitted that a key factor to a successful marriage is; “If you’re wrong, say you’re sorry. If you’re right – just shut up.”

He must have learned this lesson because the last few years he and Darlene became very good friends. And Darlene – as well as his four children – were right beside him on the journey he traveled, battling the cancer.

And so today we say goodbye to Bruce. A man who when confronted with his illness, never complained. Was always positive. Courageous throughout the pain. Set a wonderful example for his children.

And his children helped him travel to the other side.

He was the nicest brother.

Eulogy Quotes

Adding eulogy quotes to your speech, is like seasoning your speech with spices,  demonstrating colorful descriptions and thoughtful explanations.  Trying to write an eulogy  when you are staring at at blank piece of paper, is about as easy as pulling teeth from an alligator.    By incorporating  classic quotes into your script, it is like being handed a life raft.  It provides you with a base to work from and is particularly  invaluable in helping  describe the deceased’s character.  Some of the eulogy quotes are entertaining, some are witty, some insightful in expressing your points of view.

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Eulogy Quotes by Jim Rohn;

The following are  quotes by Jim Rohn that I like to use in describing the character of the person.

  • “The good life is not an amount; it’s an attitude, an act, an idea, a discovery, a search.”

This next quote works well as a metaphor to compare the deceased to a well-fashioned day;

  • ” A well-fashioned day – with a beginning and an end, a purpose and a content, a color and a character, a feel and a texture – takes it place among the many and becomes a valuable memory and treasure.  At midnight the winged messengers come and gather up all these pieces and take them off to wherever the mosaic is kept.  And surely, on occasion, one messenger says to another, ‘Wait ’til you see this one.'”
  • “Happiness is the art of learning how to get joy from your substance.”
  • “Happiness is not an accident.  Nor is it something you wish for.  Happiness is something you design.”
  • “Happiness is both the joy of discovery and the joy of knowing.  It’s the joy that comes to those who painstakingly design their lives and then live them with artistry.   Happiness is both giving and receiving, reaping and bestowing.  It comes to those who deliberately expand their horizons and experiences.  It resides in the houses of those who have the ability to handles disappointment without losing their sense of well-being.It is activity with purpose.  It’s love in practice.  It is both a grasp of the obvious and an awe of the mysterious.”
  • “If we are fortunate, we one day find that person who impacts our world in such a way that our life is never the same again.  By chance, or by design, we met that someone who offers the support, encouragement, and inspiration to become more than we ever thought possible.  For me that person was (name of the deceased).”
  • “Man should be judged by the deeds done to help his fellow man.”  – Ted Turner
  • “Life truly is a boomerang.  What you give, you get.”  – Dale Carnegie

“When a man’s life is over, it remains true that he was one sort of man and not another. A man who understands himself under the form of eternity knows the quality that eternally belongs to him, and knows that he cannot wholly die, even if he would, for when the movement of his life is over, the truth of his life remains.”

philosopher, George Santayana

Eulogy Quotes about mistakes:

“The man who makes no mistakes does not usually make anything.”- W.C. Magee

“The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one.”  – Elbert Hubbard

You can observe a lot just by watchin’.  – Yogi Berra

A human life is sacred.

It is sacred in its being born.

It is sacred in its living.

And it is sacred in its dying.

Reach high, for stars lie hidden in your soul.

Dream deep, for every dream precedes the goal.

– Pamela Vaull Starr

Humor:

Behind every successful man is a surprised mother-in-law.

Christopher Robin eulogy quotes are wonderful for incorporating grandchildren into the service.  Here are two favorite ones for them to read aloud.

  • “If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.” -Winnie the Pooh to Christopher  Robin
  • The following is what Christopher Robin said to Winnie The Pooh.  I think if (name of the deceased) was here, he/she would say it to us too.  “If ever there is a tomorrow when we ‘re not together, there is something you must remember. You’re braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.  But the most important thing is, even we are apart, I will always be with you.”                                   -Christopher Robin To Winnie The Pooh

Eulogy Quotes on Happiness:

  • “He who enjoys doing and enjoys what he has done is happy.”-J.W. von Goethe
  • “There are two things to aim at in life: first, to get what you want; and after that, to enjoy it.  Only the wisest of mankind achieve the second. “- Logan Smith
  • It is not how much we have, but how much we enjoy, that makes happiness.”  – Charles Spurgeon
  • “The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet.” – James Oppenheim

Our lives are songs; God write the words

And we set them to music at pleasure;

And the song grows glad, or sweet or sad,

As we choose to fashion the measure.

-Ella Wilcox

The fear of death follows from the fear of life.  A man (or woman) who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.

– Mark Twain

If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.

-H D Thoreau

The Golden Rule is that there are no golden rules.

– G B Shaw

Security is mostly a superstition.   Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.

-Helen Keller

Success is the ability to go from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm.

-Winston Churchill

The following is a great ending for an eulogy.  Former Canadian Prime Minister used this line in ending his eulogy to President Ronald Reagan.

“Think where man’s glory most begins and ends and say – my glory was that I had such friends.”

For a Suicide; Angel On The Breeze

Angel On The Breeze

A beautiful song written by a father after the suicide of his daughter.

Vicky from Darwin died after taking an overdose following two years of desperately searching for a job. The 21-year-old, with 10 GCSEs and three A-levels, died a day after she had received another rejection letter following a recent job interview.

Her father has written this song in Vicki’s memory and he sent it to me with the hope that others will find comfort with his words and music. The song’s video includes videos and photos of Vicky.

He has given permission to freely distribute in the hope that this music will in some small way help others.

Angel On The Breeze

 

To see your smile once more

And hear your voice again

If only I could have those things

It would help to ease my pain

My pillow holds an ocean of tears

Thinking it’s a dream

My heart is in a million pieces

I just want to shout and scream

You are the sun that shines so bright

You are the twinkle of a star in the sky

You are the flowers that grow wild and free

You are an angel who glides on the breeze

If pictures paint a thousand words

You have broken the rule

By taking one look at you

We can all see you’re the jewel

I’m lost and don’t know what to do

Each day I cry and cry

Your beautiful face and smile to see

Would help to get me by

You are the sun that shines so bright

You are the twinkle of a star in the sky

You are the flowers that grow wild and free

You are an angel who glides on the breeze

Angel on the breeze

Angel on the breeze

Angel on the breeze

Angel on the breeze

Angel on the breeze

Angel on the breeze

Additional Ideas for Songs

Songs Played At Funerals

Songs played at funerals can help express how greatly your loved one will be missed.     The selection of funeral songs can make you smile… or cause you to cry.

There is no right music that suits all.  The songs played at funerals are as varied as the individual that was.

And that’s what this day is all about. 

Additional Resources for Songs;

I’ll Be Missing You By Sting or Puff Daddy

The following is Puff Daddy’s version:

Nothing Compares To You   –   Sinead O’Connor

In My Life  – The Beatles

Unforgettable   – Nat King Cole

There You Be  –  Faith Hill

Seasons In The Sun  –  Terry Jacks

Simply The Best  –  Tina Turner

Stand By Me  –  Ben E King

Every Little Thing She Does Is Magic  –  Sting

Old Favorite Songs

Old Favorite Songs

Memories Are Made of This by Dean Martin

Gone Fishin by Bing Crosby and Louis Armstrong

My Way by Frank Sinatra

Christian Music

Christian Funeral Music

Listen to our selection of the most popular Christian funeral music songs.

In selecting songs, give consideration to the favorite songs and hymns of the deceased.

Prior to when my mother-in-law passed away, I had never thought to ask her what hymns were her favorite. I asked her fellow church friends for input and they kindly gave me a selection of Christian music songs that my mother-in-law had loved.

Catholic Funeral Hymns

Catholic Funeral Hymns

When my mother-in-law passed away, the responsibility fall to me to select the hymns for the Catholic funeral service. This was a somewhat daunting task, selecting Catholic funeral hymns, as I am not Catholic.

Choices had to be made for:

  • Opening Hymn
  • Psalm
  • Song for Offertory
  • Communion Song
  • Recessional

HELP! I contacted my mother-in-law’s fellow Church going friends and asked them for their help in selecting the hymns. I also asked them what some of my mother-in-law’s favorite hymns might have been. These are some of the Catholic funeral hymns that her friends provided to me to choose from;

For the entrance or Opening Hymn, we selected; Jesus Christ Is Risen Today. 

For the Psalm; The Lord Is My Shepherd.

The Offertory: I Heard The Voice Of Jesus

Communion: We Have Been Told

Recessional: Celtic Song of Farewell.

Funeral Hymns

Listen to A Selection of Funeral Service Hymns

Below is a collection of my favorites funeral hymns, done in a variety of renditions from everything from choir to gospel and to country.

The link includes a snippet of music from the most popular funeral hymns.

Enjoy. I hope you find comfort in the words and music of these hymns.

Traditional Organ Music

The following are the same songs, with a link to the music performed in the traditional organ music of the church.

By no means exhaustive, this selection of hymns can be found in most hymn books. However, if you know of a favorite hymn of the deceased, then you probably want to include it in the service.

Jazz and Blues

Jazz and Blues Songs for Funerals

Favorite jazz and blues songs for funerals.

A Selection of Videos of Jazz and Blues Songs for Funerals;

The Thrill Is Gone by B.B. King

 

Slow Blues by Oscar Peterson and Count Basie

 

Sweet Home Chicago by Buddy Guy

 

Sky is Crying by Stevie Ray Vaughan

 

S’Wonderful by Diana Krall

Instrumental and Classical Music

A Selection of Instrumental Funeral Music

Music seems to say what the heart has trouble finding the words for.

A formal funeral may include a selection of music by Bach, Chopin, Fauvre, Brahms, or Schubert – often played on the organ or by a single pianist, guitarist, flutist, or vocalist.

It is perfectly acceptable in some settings to play a tape of your favorite compositions.

Here are a number of instrumental music selections, mostly classical, for services both formal and informal that I have collected over the years.

A selection of videos of several of these instrumental selections:

Chopin Funeral March

 

Dance of the Blessed Spirits by Gluck

 

Preludes Chopin Op.28

 

Elegy by Faure

 

An Ending by Brian Eno

 

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